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Advent Day 16

Child 3 had his end-of-term carol service yesterday afternoon, and children 2 and 4, plus Grandma and I, went along and afterwards we trooped off to a coffee shop, where Child 2 and I queued for hot chocolate, tea, millionaire’s shortbread and a ‘flapjack, do you think they’ll have a

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Advent Day 15

Today I’m back on agreeing to differ.  A while ago now, I stood up and challenged a homophobic woman who was speaking out during a service at the church I was attending at the time (you can read the post here).  It wasn’t something I’d planned to do – in fact,

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Advent Day 14

When I was a teenager, I was fine with the idea of Heaven but refused to believe in Hell. I was quite happy that there might be good in people that I was incapable of seeing (after all, I had untold hidden depths and was understood by nobody outside of

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Advent Day 13

Where else can I start today but in Aleppo? The news coming from Aleppo today is beyond horrific. Civilians are being killed in their homes. Those who have fled are finding that there is not enough food or shelter to receive them; some are even going back on the buses

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Advent Day 12

I started these posts to try and get some answers. There was nothing at all ambitious or delusional about thinking that I could, in twenty-four posts, nail the answers to questions that have puzzled mankind for as long as there’s been mankind to be puzzled. But I’m half way through

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Advent Day 11

Today we went to the pantomime. Oh yes we did. Even James, who has been slightly phobic about pantomimes ever since Cinderella at the Wycombe Swan in 2013, when one of the Ugly Sisters took a shine to him and flirted outrageously throughout, to the extent that we were stopped

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Advent Day 10

I think I’m ok with death as a general principle. That’s easy for me to say, because the only death I’ve witnessed personally was my beloved Great Aunt Winifred’s. She died peacefully and beautifully, like the man in the John Donne poem, towards the end of the Christmas holidays when

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Advent Day 9

‘So,’ said the purple winged angel, ‘shall we talk about the elephant in the room?’ There actually is an elephant in the room. I’ve borrowed it from child 3’s school for a concert, about which I will surely be writing in a future entry, and it’s making a curious addition

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Advent Day 8

Today was a day I gave myself a few months ago. I booked something I really, really wanted to do. It was something for myself and I kept it secret, because I was frightened that other people would think it was silly. And it was something that I knew would

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Advent Day 7

I have a friend who was diagnosed with terminal cancer recently. Compared to this, James’ autoimmune condition (which, for anyone interested, is called Wegener’s Granulomatosis) is a walk in the park. Not because it’s easy to deal with – indeed, when it decides to flare up, walks in the park

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